Beyond (WAY beyond) Orgasms The Myth About Making Women Come or The Big Lie About Women & SEX

Remember when you first discovered that women like sex... and that they think about sex just as much as men do?

Remember how that realization rocked you? (Even though it's probably no big deal to you anymore).

Remember when you discovered that most women will FAKE IT if you've been having sex for a while and you're not "doing the trick" for her?

(That one probably still bugs you a bit)...

Well there's another... even BIGGER myth that most men still haven't figured out:

Just being able to give a woman an orgasm doesn't mean you're good in bed.

THE FACTS:

There are simple, proven ways to easily give any woman an orgasm... but for women,

GREAT SEX takes a LOT more than just being able to make her come.

In fact, in survey after survey, most women in relationships say they are NOT SATISFIED with their sex-lives...

And if you think that just being able to make your partner come means that she's not one of those unsatisfied women...

Think again.

Here's how to make sure that ANY woman you are with says you are GREAT in bed:

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Hit that link above and find out how to rock any woman's world beyond her wildest fantasies.

Jessilene @ Feel’n Good

P.S., And, yes, if you want to just be sure you know how to make ANY woman come (and that she's not faking it) this vid will show you the simple way to make sure you've got that skill on LOCKDOWN:

http://www.revolutionarysex.net

Sex That Will Make Her Ache And Fantasize About You Forever

Are there "techniques" so powerful that you can leave any woman "shocked and awed" by your ability to make her come over and over again?

* According to the stats, 70% of women occasionally or regularly "fake it"...

* Add to that that 7 out of 10 women NEVER come during intercourse...

That's some ugly numbers when you consider that all of the magazines on the checkout stand have articles on "techniques you can use to blow her mind tonight" every single month.

What's going on here?

Is it that nobody is reading this endless stream of articles?

Can it be that most women simply aren't wired for pleasure?

Maybe most men just don't have what it takes to get the job the done?

WATCH THIS VIDEO NOW TO FIND OUT THE TRUTH:

http://www.revolutionarysex.net

In it, famous sex author and speaker, Alex Allman, gives a few simple ideas and techniques that will, literally INSTANTLY make you a significantly better lover.

Most men (and probably most women) believe that amazing sex is just a matter of a large enough tool, applied for a long enough period of time, taking into account hitting the right spots...

But according to Allman's work with hundreds of men, women, and couples, those factors actually have very little to do with giving women massive sexual pleasure.

If you just apply a few simple ideas that he teaches, you could skip all the nonsense and insecurities that plague most men and women around sex, and just start having FUN...

While enjoying giving her the most intense, connected, intimate, and powerful orgasms imaginable.

The crazy part is that it's actually easy to do when you stop focusing on all the wrong things.

Check out the video here...

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...where he gives three important tips to giving women soul-searing multiple-orgasms TONIGHT...

Without having the stamina to last for hours or studying the ancient tantric lotus butterfly tongue technique.

He's also giving away a simple guide on how to avoid the common mistakes most men make that "kill it" for women... even when they are doing everything else right.

Get it here:

http://www.revolutionarysex.net
Jessilene @ Feel'n Good

P.S., Alex's book, "Revolutionary Sex" is the simplest and most complete guide to having the experience of deeply connected intimacy during love making available...
CLICK HERE FOR DETAILS:
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Turning on her mind

Turning on her mind
By Gabrielle Moore

Gabrielle Moore is the author of Turn Turning on a woman emotionally is almost equivalent to turning you on Her On Faster.

Turning on a woman emotionally is almost equivalent to turning you on physically. If a woman is in the right state of mind she can have much more enjoyable foreplay and, hence, equally terrific sex.

While arousing her body may seem like an easier, straightforward task (read more in the next chapter), stimulating her mind takes patience and creativity (and a little bit of corniness). Let’s call it sensuous mindplay.

This article is a brief extract from my hot “Turn Her On Faster” e-course.

 

Eye contact

Don’t forget: an unexpected “look” can build the anticipation for later. That wink is a boyish, coy way to captivate her. So can capturing her stare and giving her a genuine smile, stealing a look while she’s doing a chore or some other mundane task that wouldn’t usually warrant a sneak peek, or holding her gaze for longer than a split-second.

The lost art of kissing

What happened to kissing? Does it die out after you hear the minister say, “You may kiss your bride”? I have listened to so many of my married friends say, “I miss making out.” We yearn for no-strings-attached fooling around where we can make out without the immediate expectation of sex. There’s something thrilling about going at it like school kids on the couch or in the car (or, better yet, in a secret public place).

A few  tips for reviving your kissing techniques and bringing the fun back to old-school make-out sessions:

1- Kiss her and let your tongue touch the very edge of her lips. The soft sensations will drive her absolutely wild.

2- Use your lips to “nibble” her bottom lip or, if you’re verrrry careful, you can even use your teeth for a gentle bite. Just proceed with caution.

3- Kiss her with an open mouth and then pull away ever so slightly, allowing your tongues to continue dancing. Guys seem to really like this form of kissing.



Intimate talk

After years of marriage, talking openly and freely about your sexual needs can be an incredibly daunting exercise, especially if you’ve never done it. But if you want your wife to don a French maid outfit or get a little forceful with a leather whip, she’s never going to do it unless you just ask her. The same goes for her.

In other words, one discussion about innermost desires can snowball and affect your general outlook on your entire relationship!



Dirty talk

The art of dirty talk is different from the aforementioned intimate talk – dirty talk is, well, more risqué.

A common misconception is that dirty talk has to be raunchy and vulgar, but it can take on a wide range of forms. It’s really about the type of couple you are and the terminology that will get you the best reaction (you don’t want to insult her if she’s embarrassed about you using the word p*ssy or c*ck).

Sexual Variations

LOUD SEX:

A wife went in to see a therapist and said, "I've got a big problem, doctor.  Every time we're in bed and my husband climaxes, he  lets out this ear splitting yell. 

"My dear," the shrink said, "that's completely  natural.  I don't see  what the problem is."   

"The problem is," she complained, "It wakes me up!"

QUIET SEX:

Tired of a listless sex life, the man came right out and asked his wife during a recent lovemaking session, How come you never  tell me when you have an orgasm?"

She glanced at him casually and replied, "You're never home!"

DECEPTIVE SEX:

A married man and his secretary were having a torrid affair. One afternoon they couldn't contain their passion, so they rushed over to her place where they spent the afternoon making passionate love.  When they were finished, they fell asleep, not waking until 8 o'clock. They got up and dressed quickly.  Then the man told his secretary to take his shoes outside and rub them on the lawn. Bewildered, she did as he asked thinking him pretty weird. 

The man finally got home and his wife met him at the door.  Upset, she asked where he'd been.   The man replied, "I cannot tell a lie. My secretary and I are having an affair. Today we left work early, went to her place,  spent the afternoon  making love, and then fell asleep. That's why I'm  late." 

The wife looked at him, took notice of his shoes and  yelled, "I can see those are grass stains on your shoes. YOU DAMN LIAR! You've been playing  golf again, haven't you?"

CONFOUNDED SEX:

A man was in a terrible accident, and his "manhood" was mangled and torn from his body.  His doctor assured him that modern medicine could give him back his manhood, but that his insurance wouldn't cover the surgery, since it was considered cosmetic. The doctor said that the cost would be $3500 for "small," $6500 for "medium," and $14,000 for "large."

The man was sure he would want a medium or large, but the doctor urged him to talk it over with his wife before he made any decision. 

The man called his wife on the phone and explained their options.  The doctor came back into the room, and found the man looking quite dejected. "Well, what have the two of you decided?" asked the doctor.

The man answered, "She'd rather remodel the kitchen".

Victoria's Secret Fashion Show 2011

 

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I Picked You A Pumpkin

I noticed that you had a little Halloween spirit in you,

however you don't have a pumpkin out yet so I thought

I would pick you up one last night on my way home.

No thanks or money needed Just enjoy.

Trick and Tips to Make Oral Sex Safe

“Healthy, lusty sex is wonderful”- John Wayne
Many experts agree that oral sex without protection is not as dangerous as vaginal or anal intercourse without a condom. The risks are lower because the lining of the mouth is thicker and stronger than that of the vagina or anus. Also, it’s less likely to cause sores and lesions that facilitate the infiltration of infections in your blood and system. Another extra point on behalf of the greater safety of oral sex: it is believed that saliva contains a substance that weakens the viruses responsible for sexually transmitted diseases.
Despite all these good points, oral sex is still not risk free, and you shouldn’t perform it on someone whose medical record you don’t know, unless you’ve taken the necessary measures of protection.
Here’s a list of the most important ones. Don’t neglect any of them, no matter how unnecessary you might consider them at first glance, or else you’ll end up infected. Since they are easy to follow and don’t take the pleasure out of the act itself, there’s absolutely nothing to complain about.
1. Safe fingering. If you have small cuts, tiny lesions or sores on your fingers, even imperceptible or apparently innocent ones like paper cuts, use medical-grade gloves, to prevent any risk of infection. These gloves are easily found in most pharmacies or purchased online in a myriad of colors and textures. Some even come pre-lubricated or powdered for a more realistic feel.
2. The power of dental dams. Purchase a dental dam specifically made for oral sex; there are some that even come pre-flavored, lubed and/or with a stickable strip at the top of each use. If it’s not lubed, grab your choice of water-based lubricant and apply some to her side of the dental dam. Put it over her entire vulva, covering her Vaginal Opening and Front Commissure.
3. How to keep the dental dam in place. The most ingenious ways to keep the dental dam secure, when you don’t want to use you’re hands because they are busy stimulating other parts of her body:

a) Ask your girlfriend to wear panties with the crotch cut out over the top of the dental dam.

b) Use garters to attach from one side to another, and wrap them around your girlfriend’s leg.

c) Apply spirit gum to temporarily glue the dental dam in place.

4. Don’t mix things up. If you plan on some anal as well as vaginal play, make sure you use two separate dams that don’t come into contact with each other, because you’ll give her a nasty infection by moving fluids up and forth her vagina. I know it can be a bit of a mood killer to stop to take another dam but trust me, health-wise, you’re both winners.
5. Don’t hesitate to be more firm. She’ll need a tougher tongue when using a dental dam than without. She won’t be able to feel the friction of your tongue, just the vibrational aspect, which means you should put a bit more effort into licking and sucking, just to make sure she feels it as she would in the absence of the dental dam. You can also use your teeth, but lightly- you don’t want to rip it, but you do want to apply more pressure than you normally would. So, scraping and light biting isn’t taboo here. Other neat tricks:

a) Use the edge of the dental dam and rake it along her Clitoral Head; the feeling is so real-like she won’t even remember you’re not touching her directly on the skin.

b) Roll up the dental dam and use it as a makeshift finger, either to tease her vulva and Clitoral Head, or inside of her against her G spot. Because of the strong lubrication and the little folds in the dental dam, she’ll enjoy every bit of the action.

c) Wrap the dental dam around the top of the Clitoral Head and along the Front Commissure, then push and pull the edges to rub and “shine” it. This is a favorite trick of mine, I love the feeling it gives me and the fact that it covers a pretty large area and it stimulates me more than I would have imagined at first.

Have a safely sensual week,
Gabrielle Moore
P.S. If you’re not convinced by these methods, ask your girlfriend to go together for a whole medical check-up. Once you’re both sure that you’re infection free, you can do it however you like!