I noticed that you had a little Halloween spirit in you,
however you don't have a pumpkin out yet so I thought
I would pick you up one last night on my way home.
No thanks or money needed Just enjoy.
Friday, September 9, 2011
Saturday, March 12, 2011
Trick and Tips to Make Oral Sex Safe
“Healthy, lusty sex is wonderful”- John Wayne Many experts agree that oral sex without protection is not as dangerous as vaginal or anal intercourse without a condom. The risks are lower because the lining of the mouth is thicker and stronger than that of the vagina or anus. Also, it’s less likely to cause sores and lesions that facilitate the infiltration of infections in your blood and system. Another extra point on behalf of the greater safety of oral sex: it is believed that saliva contains a substance that weakens the viruses responsible for sexually transmitted diseases.
Despite all these good points, oral sex is still not risk free, and you shouldn’t perform it on someone whose medical record you don’t know, unless you’ve taken the necessary measures of protection.
Here’s a list of the most important ones. Don’t neglect any of them, no matter how unnecessary you might consider them at first glance, or else you’ll end up infected. Since they are easy to follow and don’t take the pleasure out of the act itself, there’s absolutely nothing to complain about.
1. Safe fingering. If you have small cuts, tiny lesions or sores on your fingers, even imperceptible or apparently innocent ones like paper cuts, use medical-grade gloves, to prevent any risk of infection. These gloves are easily found in most pharmacies or purchased online in a myriad of colors and textures. Some even come pre-lubricated or powdered for a more realistic feel.
2. The power of dental dams. Purchase a dental dam specifically made for oral sex; there are some that even come pre-flavored, lubed and/or with a stickable strip at the top of each use. If it’s not lubed, grab your choice of water-based lubricant and apply some to her side of the dental dam. Put it over her entire vulva, covering her Vaginal Opening and Front Commissure.
3. How to keep the dental dam in place. The most ingenious ways to keep the dental dam secure, when you don’t want to use you’re hands because they are busy stimulating other parts of her body:
a) Ask your girlfriend to wear panties with the crotch cut out over the top of the dental dam.
b) Use garters to attach from one side to another, and wrap them around your girlfriend’s leg.
c) Apply spirit gum to temporarily glue the dental dam in place.
5. Don’t hesitate to be more firm. She’ll need a tougher tongue when using a dental dam than without. She won’t be able to feel the friction of your tongue, just the vibrational aspect, which means you should put a bit more effort into licking and sucking, just to make sure she feels it as she would in the absence of the dental dam. You can also use your teeth, but lightly- you don’t want to rip it, but you do want to apply more pressure than you normally would. So, scraping and light biting isn’t taboo here. Other neat tricks:
a) Use the edge of the dental dam and rake it along her Clitoral Head; the feeling is so real-like she won’t even remember you’re not touching her directly on the skin.
b) Roll up the dental dam and use it as a makeshift finger, either to tease her vulva and Clitoral Head, or inside of her against her G spot. Because of the strong lubrication and the little folds in the dental dam, she’ll enjoy every bit of the action.
c) Wrap the dental dam around the top of the Clitoral Head and along the Front Commissure, then push and pull the edges to rub and “shine” it. This is a favorite trick of mine, I love the feeling it gives me and the fact that it covers a pretty large area and it stimulates me more than I would have imagined at first.Have a safely sensual week,
Gabrielle Moore
P.S. If you’re not convinced by these methods, ask your girlfriend to go together for a whole medical check-up. Once you’re both sure that you’re infection free, you can do it however you like!
Saturday, February 12, 2011
Is Her NOT ‘Coming’ Getting in the Way of Your Relationship?
Men are from Mars and women are from Venus. It’s a fact that men and women are different and that extends to achieving sexual pleasure as well. Take for instance the topic of orgasms; men reach their climax sooner than women. Period.
Unfortunately, since the reasons WHY a woman does not reach an orgasm as fast as a man are not explored, what happens is that the sexual relationship generally develops into one where reaching her orgasm is not even an objective!
Society has a lot to do with this. It seems that women, in general, have been raised with the mentality that when it comes to sex, his orgasm is the goal. As for her, it’s ok; it’s natural that she doesn’t reach an orgasm. And while couples easily accept this, what most people don’t realize is that a woman not reaching her orgasm is actually the root of MANY relationship problems.
Relationship Problems Caused by Your Partner Not Reaching an Orgasm
Sexual Frustration. Imagine if you have sex with your partner and you’re never given the chance to reach your climax. That’s a dreadful thought, isn’t it? You probably wouldn’t even call it ‘having sex’ at all. Think of all that frustration inside you that just grows after each time you have sex. Well, it’s the same for women!
Even though it would take longer for women to reach the point of ‘sexual frustration’, they will reach it one way or the other. And this frustration will manifest itself in many different areas in your relationship.
Resentment. You can’t blame women for wanting what they see as an obviously great and pleasurable experience for you. If you don’t take the time to learn how to bring her to an orgasm, then she will soon begin to resent your ‘selfishness’ in bed. After all, why should you have all the fun? You may find great techniques here…
Again, this resentment may start small but sooner or later, it will grow and reveal itself in other areas of your relationship. For instance, she may become short-tempered with you, and you will see this as simply her being annoying or a nag. Do you see how this can easily become a big problem in your relationship?
Decrease in Sexual Intimacy. For many women, instead of discussing the topic of female orgasm with their partners, they deal with their sexual frustration by turning to other things such as using sex toys or engaging in self-pleasure or masturbation. While using pleasure toys and pleasuring one’s self is not bad at all, using it as a permanent substitute to reach an orgasm is!
Pretty soon, the act of making love itself will look less and less thrilling for her. After all, she knows she can get greater pleasure from her sex toys and through masturbation than by making love with you. As a result, she will be less and less inclined to engage in sex.
And now the tables have turned. As she loses interest in sex, now YOU are the one who’s going to start to feel sexually frustrated. Find new ways to recover sexual creativity here…
Relationship Withdrawal. When physical intimacy decreases, overall relationship closeness begins to decline as well. You see, if you don’t make love, you also don’t reach that magical moment called ‘afterglow’, when a couple truly bonds after having sex.
Think about it this way: each day that you don’t make love, is a day that brings the two of your further and further apart.
Infidelity. If a woman gets to experience sexual pleasure only through sex toys and by the use of her own hand, and if this makes her lose interest in the sexual act itself with you, then imagine how ‘easy’ it can be for her to fall for another man!
If a woman meets a person who can bring her tremendous physical pleasure that no one has ever given her before, isn’t it logical that she would fall head over heels over this person? After all, in her eyes, it’s this person who truly cares about her. Otherwise, why would he go to such great lengths to pleasure her?
Female orgasms are not often talked about but in reality, a lot of relationships suffer the consequences of women not reaching their climax. So if you want a great relationship, one that’s also characterized by great sex, then the best thing you can do is to ENSURE you know how to make her reach her climax. To learn more, click here…
Good luck!
Friday, February 4, 2011
No More Excuses
Here are the scariest words in the world: NOT TONIGHT, I AM TIRED…
If you are naïve enough, you will never realize the danger of those words. The truth is, and let me say it clear:
Nobody in her right mind would ever be tired to have a mind-blowing orgasm!
If you are getting that kind of answer, odds are you are not doing it the right way. Do you know what the #1 cause of infidelity is? Sexual frustration!
That is why those words are so scary…
Now comes the good news: there are easy and fast ways to learn how to satisfy a woman in bed. How about 197 secrets to do it?
My friend Gabrielle Moore has an amazing site with proven techniques and tips to help you receive a different answer ...more of a LET’S DO THAT AGAIN PLEASE!!!
Her top seller book has been read across the world, helping thousands with their s.ex lives. In fact, Gabrielle has become one of the top intimacy advisors in the net.
So now you know…if you have heard some kind of excuse lately, it is time to change your strategies.
Ps. Don’t wait until you hear an excuse…truth is, if she is saying it already, odds are she has been trying something new with somebody else.
You have nothing to loose and much to gain…click here NOW!
Tuesday, January 11, 2011
“The Female O.rgasm Revealed”
Let me ask you something: how many different positions
have you tried in bed? How many have you tried out of
bed? How many have you tried underwater?
The reason I am asking is because my great friend
Gabrielle, an expert on female intimacy, has recently
published her book “The Female Orgasm Revealed”.
It contains more than 197 hot secrets on how to please
your partner.
In her book, Gabrielle talks about 34 “uncommon”
positions that you MUST try if you want to satisfy your
lover.
To read more, go to:
http://www.gabriellemoore.com/
Now let me tell you why it is so important to try new
things in your intimate life; many opinion polls have
shown that the # 1 reason for infidelity is sexual
frustration.
Women get bored of “the same old stuff” or “the same
routine”, and they are often to ashamed to ask for a
change.
Therefore, they end up with somebody else instead of
trying something different…with YOU.
Gabrielle’s site is wonderful. She provides a lot of
useful information on myths about the female orgasm.
Check it out at:
http://www.gabriellemoore.com/
Trust me…if you try something new tonight, she will
stay with you forever.
Talk to you later,
(SIGNATURE)
Ps. Go ahead and visit Gabrielle’s site at:
http://www.gabriellemoore.com/
There is always something you don’t know, that might
literally save your relationship.
Saturday, January 8, 2011
Great Sources For Us Baby Boomer's Who Still Believe 'Things' Do Get Better With Age, Including 'SEX'!
Claiming Your Place at the Fire: Living the Second Half of Your Life on Purpose
by Richard J. Leider (Paperback - Sept. 9, 2004)
Reviews from: Claiming Your Place at the Fire: Living the Second Half of Your Life on Purpose
5.0 out of 5 stars Grow Alive Instead of Old, January 24, 2005
By Artist Barbara Garro (Barbara Garro at http://www.ElectricEnvisions.com in Saratoga Springs, NY) - See all my reviews
You can grow old in the darkness of night or grow alive in the light of your sun--your choice. Richard J. Leider and David A. Shapiro take you by the hand and help you see how to let go of the things that don't bring you alive and replace them with things that do. Can it really be that simple? You decide.
CLAIMING YOUR PLACE AT THE FIRE lets you see how to believe that every second of human life is valuable. And, oh how our needy world needs the best of every single one of us. If you can answer a telephone and speak, you can volunteer for a prayer line where people call for comfort in times of turmoil and are so grateful when they get a live person.
When you are tempted to give in to your aches and pains, do remember Stephen Hawking, our modern day Einstein confined to a wheel chair, who had a body that was unable to respond to him. So, he used to the fullest what was able to respond to him, his mind, and blessed the entire universe with his wisdom.
Best of all, CLAIMING YOUR PLACE AT THE FIRE makes you feel warm and comfortable about walking your path instead of so afraid of what will happen to you.
5.0 out of 5 stars Step Up .. It's Time and Here's HOW, November 19, 2007
If you've 'tripped over the human 50-yard line' ... then this book is definitely for you. I personally wish I would have been wise enough to understand it's deeper meanings 20 years ago - but that would not have happened. The words and wisdom of this book are just not for the younger years. But as the book shows, it is our - those of us who now find ourselves, by age and experience, at the edge of the fire - responsibility to pass on - as mentors - to the younger generation the most important piece of advice they can get: "You will one day be here, prepare now."
A must read for every man and woman over 50 years of age. This is a guide book for
+ WHY you should look forward to living past 50,
+ What you should have been doing before you got here
+ How to make the most of your Life Learnings
+ Where you are now and in the remaining years of your life
+ Who your focus will be on from now on: giving of your Life Learnings to the younger generation
+ What you should have been doing before you got here
+ How to make the most of your Life Learnings
+ Where you are now and in the remaining years of your life
+ Who your focus will be on from now on: giving of your Life Learnings to the younger generation
This is what those 'hot-dog roasting fires' were meant to be! Go read the book. Then go build a fire and roast some hot-dogs, make some smoores and gather your friends to enjoy. The rest will come as the embers begin to glow. So will you.
4.0 out of 5 stars Thought Provoking, February 11, 2008
To retire or refire? What does the future hold? "Claiming Your Place at the Fire" helps us ask the right questions as we try to make sense out of and find meaning in the second half of our lives. It is full of insight on how to do that in a way that makes sense for a variety of people in all sorts of situations. It was very helpful to me as I weigh the options in my life and work. Thought provoking and conversation starting.
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Sex for Grownups: Dr. Dorree Reveals the Truths, Lies, and Must-Tries for Great Sex After 50
by Dorree Lynn and Cindy Spitzer (Paperback - Apr. 1, 2010)
Sex So Good That You Won't Believe You Waited This Long to Enjoy It!
Celebrity psychologist and sexpert Dr. Dorree Lynn has helped thousands of people over the last four decades achieve intimacy, vitality, and the best sex of their lives no matter what their age. In Sex for Grownups, Dr. Dorree delves deeply where other books only peek and proves that grownup sex, like fine wine, truly does get better with age.
Reviews from: Sex for Grownups: Dr. Dorree Reveals the Truths, Lies, and Must-Tries for Great Sex After 50
5.0 out of 5 stars Dynamite, Provokative, Fascinating, Pushes the Envalope, March 29, 2010
By Hope "Hope" (Florida) - See all my reviews
Sex for Grownups: Dr. Dorree Reveals the Truths, Lies, and Must-Tries for Great Sex After 50 These authors, Dr. Dorree Lynn and Cindy Spitzer, are in my 61 year old head (and body). How did they do it? They are funny, yet informative, though a bit way out for my taste. But,they are so permission giving, savvy and informative, they may yet convince me to open my mind about a number of issues I've never really thought about. They have a very different spin on sex and life. There's so much depth, almost too much to absorb, yet it's an easy read. I've never read anything quite like it. And that's saying a lot. Anyone else have reactions to this unusual book?
5.0 out of 5 stars A must-read for seniors facing a sexual crisis, March 25, 2010
By Chloe Jon Paul (Bowie, MD) - See all my reviews
50 who may be experiencing dissatisfaction in their sex lives. Great chapter titles!
5.0 out of 5 stars Should We Tell the Kids?, April 8, 2010
Why should kids have all the fun? Should we TELL them it's still getting better, or let them grow up and find out for themselves?
Guess I'm inclined to be kind, so I leave Sex for Grownups lying around when my adult kids come to visit. Now that Dr. Dorree has put all her clinical experience and experience between the sheets between these covers, no one needs to miss out on what the second half of life has to offer. Happy, satisfying senior sex--one of the world's best kept secrets until now--is out in the open, and the world is a better place because of it.
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Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk About Sex After Sixty
by Joan Price (Paperback - Dec. 13, 2005)
Reviews from: Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk About Sex After Sixty
5.0 out of 5 stars Encouraging advice, and a great love story, too, February 24, 2006
If you're trying to decide which of the new "sex over 60" books to buy, definitely choose this one. It is not a step-by-step "how to" book that might offend people, although it does cover every aspect of sexual activity--married, single, solo, gay, straight, young, old, one-night, long-term (50 years and even longer). Instead, the book provides practical, encouraging advice from experts and from ordinary women about the joys of loving relationships, dealing with sexual problems of menopause, loss of interest in sex (or your partner's loss of interest and/or ability), how to approach sex with a new partner, helpful exercises, and even a detailed discussion of sex toys and assistive devices. (I thought these were only for `adventurous' couples, but the book explains how they can make sex possible and more enjoyable for older people).
Plus, this book is also a beautiful love story which could stand on its own, even without all the excellent sex information. The writer chronicles her many relationships, from her first teenage romance (You'll be furious to learn how her father broke up what might have been a lasting relationship), to a succession of sexual affairs, including a short failed marriage. It's easy to see why she had given up on finding true love. But she never gave up on having an active, fulfilling life as a dance and exercise instructor, despite two devastating auto accidents that left her with many scars and lasting injuries.
And then, magic! In the form of a trim, gray-haired, older man she spots in one of her dance classes. These are true-to-life 60-plus people, not wrinkle-free, gorgeous-body super models, but the story of how their love and sexual relationship blossomed is a real page turner. And be prepared for a few tears when you come to a troubling revelation near the end of the story.
This is a thought-provoking, informative, encouraging book you'll definitely want to share with friends.
5.0 out of 5 stars Like Sex Itself: Fascinating, Fun, and Educational, October 17, 2006
Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk About Sex After Sixty by Joan Price lives up to its title! Like sex itself, it is fascinating, fun, and educational: a how-to book for staying sexually active and enjoying it as we, men and women, mature. With stimulating anecdotes and clinical details, it leaves no sexual arena unexplored. It encourages us to move beyond age and sexual stereotypes and better understand ourselves and our bodies. It gives a variety of suggestions on how to surmount dryness, wrinkles, flaccidity, and the like, in order to continue exploring the frontiers of pleasure and intimacy. Wise and very respectful, Joan reminds us "Great sex is what's happening between two souls, two minds, two hearts--not just two bodies." This book is a testimony to love and creativity. EVERYONE will learn from it. It is what a book should be, enriching! I wholeheartedly recommend it.
5.0 out of 5 stars Sassy Elders!, February 1, 2006
By Rebecca Brown "rebeccasreads" (Clallam Bay, WA United States) - See all my reviews
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Dr. Bond of Rebeccasreads highly recommends BETTER THAN I EVER EXPECTED: Straight Talk about Sex after Sixty as a courageous & witty guide for young people on the verge of discovering the paradise of sexuality, for older couples who have been brain-washed into thinking sex is only for the young, & for those happy lovers of all ages who wish to believe that the bliss of lovemaking will continue as long as they live.
After Joan Price agreed to write BETTER THAN I EVER EXPECTED, she circulated the following: "Wanted: Interviews with sassy, sexy women, age 60+, who are willing to share feelings and experiences openly and anonymously in a candid, woman-to-woman book" (p. 6). To her surprise, women responded abundantly, & were hungry to share their experiences & reveal the most intimate details of their bodies, fantasies, & relationships. Price uses quotes from these women's responses to illustrate her findings throughout.
BETTER THAN I EVER EXPECTED is an original book that needed to be written.
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Loving Sex: Tantric Sex 3-DVD Gift Set
Hosted by Dr. Patti Britton and Mark Michaels & Patricia Johnson (DVD - 2008)
Editorial Reviews
About the Director
The ALEXANDER INSTITUTE produces the most critically acclaimed sexuality video series for couples and singles who want to enhance their sex lives. World-renowned sex therapists, educators and best selling authors develop this most erotic and informative series. We feature attractive real couples in real situations. Studies show sexuality videos improve communication and lead to new sexual heights. Our team of experts includes Dr. Patti Britton, Dr. Lonnie Barbach, Dr. Lori Buckley, Dr. Ava Cadell, Michael Riskin, Ph.D.& the late Anita Banker Riskin, MA, Mark Michaels & Patricia Johnson, Ian & Alicia Denchasy and the late Dr. Bernie Zilbergeld.
Product Description
SAVE! 3 full-length DVDs and 1 CD. From the Alexander Institute LOVING SEX series, which was ranked the best by Men's Health Magazine. The ideal gift for loving couples. Learn how to enhance your love life with this erotic collection of explicit and informative programs. Features optional Spanish, French and German audio and menus. Gift set includes: THE MODERN TANTRA - An Erotic Workshop for Lovers. Includes free music CD! Modern Tantra is a spiritual and sexual pathway for 21st century lovers. Learn the essential elements for expressing divine energy in and between lovers. Explore this journey as sacred lovers. Unlock your mind, your emotions, and the seven energy centers of the body. Let yourself be guided to explore full-body/mind/spirit connection with your sexual partner, from the very basics to the secrets for attaining divine sexual ecstasy. Practice new sexual techniques that work. TANTRIC SEXUAL MASSAGE FOR LOVERS - New Heights of Orgasmic Pleasure! Create a transcendent erotic experience for your beloved. Spread sexual sensations throughout your partner s body with this simple, step-by-step Tantric Massage for Lovers. Discover ways to produce spontaneous ecstasy. Our expert couple teaches other attractive real life couples how to reach new heights of pleasure by taking erotic journeys together and practicing amazing genital massage. Deepen your intimacy and create a shared sense of reverence by giving and receiving pleasure. TANTRIC SEX SECRETS - A Loving Guide to Sexual Ecstasy. Discover the Tantric Erogenous Zones and the secrets of Tantric lovemaking. Learn how to stimulate your lover in new and exciting ways, mutually orchestrate arousal, and reach higher and higher states of ecstasy. This simple yet ancient system really works. It is a powerful way to enhance pleasure and deepen intimacy. Watch attractive real couples explicitly practicing these techniques. Once mastered, knowledge of the Tantric Erogenous Zones can be incorporated into any form of lovemaking.
5.0 out of 5 stars Best instructional video, November 28, 2009
As a married couple, sometimes you hit a lull in your bedroom and you need a little help reinvigorating that sexual spark. When we ordered this DVD set, we didn't have high expectations, but this definitely delivered, especially when we compared it to other instructional DVDs that we've tried. There is no set order in viewing the DVDs but each DVD has content that builds on the techniques. The framework of the DVDs is kind of like a sex therapy session, where you have someone explaining the technique, practicing the technique, and then providing immediate feedback on the technique so it can be improved upon in real time as a couple attempts to explore Tantra. It was very easy to follow and because of the emphasis on communication, it definitely helped to build greater intimacy and intensified the sexual experience. There is a nice balance between information and exploration, so you don't get bored or lose interest. If you are looking for a video that is borderline porn, this is not it. These are real couples who are searching for deeper ways of connecting with each other. We loved watching it and putting it into practice--it really helped to develop greater intimacy.
5.0 out of 5 stars Fantastic intimacy supplement to a loving relationship., April 2, 2010
This set is explicit and very informative. These dvd's take a couple to a much more sophisticated level of intimacy in a loving relationship. They are good fun, very informative and very sexy ~ it will take weeks to 'work' your way through them with your partner!
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