Turning on her mind

Turning on her mind
By Gabrielle Moore

Gabrielle Moore is the author of Turn Turning on a woman emotionally is almost equivalent to turning you on Her On Faster.

Turning on a woman emotionally is almost equivalent to turning you on physically. If a woman is in the right state of mind she can have much more enjoyable foreplay and, hence, equally terrific sex.

While arousing her body may seem like an easier, straightforward task (read more in the next chapter), stimulating her mind takes patience and creativity (and a little bit of corniness). Let’s call it sensuous mindplay.

This article is a brief extract from my hot “Turn Her On Faster” e-course.

 

Eye contact

Don’t forget: an unexpected “look” can build the anticipation for later. That wink is a boyish, coy way to captivate her. So can capturing her stare and giving her a genuine smile, stealing a look while she’s doing a chore or some other mundane task that wouldn’t usually warrant a sneak peek, or holding her gaze for longer than a split-second.

The lost art of kissing

What happened to kissing? Does it die out after you hear the minister say, “You may kiss your bride”? I have listened to so many of my married friends say, “I miss making out.” We yearn for no-strings-attached fooling around where we can make out without the immediate expectation of sex. There’s something thrilling about going at it like school kids on the couch or in the car (or, better yet, in a secret public place).

A few  tips for reviving your kissing techniques and bringing the fun back to old-school make-out sessions:

1- Kiss her and let your tongue touch the very edge of her lips. The soft sensations will drive her absolutely wild.

2- Use your lips to “nibble” her bottom lip or, if you’re verrrry careful, you can even use your teeth for a gentle bite. Just proceed with caution.

3- Kiss her with an open mouth and then pull away ever so slightly, allowing your tongues to continue dancing. Guys seem to really like this form of kissing.



Intimate talk

After years of marriage, talking openly and freely about your sexual needs can be an incredibly daunting exercise, especially if you’ve never done it. But if you want your wife to don a French maid outfit or get a little forceful with a leather whip, she’s never going to do it unless you just ask her. The same goes for her.

In other words, one discussion about innermost desires can snowball and affect your general outlook on your entire relationship!



Dirty talk

The art of dirty talk is different from the aforementioned intimate talk – dirty talk is, well, more risqué.

A common misconception is that dirty talk has to be raunchy and vulgar, but it can take on a wide range of forms. It’s really about the type of couple you are and the terminology that will get you the best reaction (you don’t want to insult her if she’s embarrassed about you using the word p*ssy or c*ck).

Trick and Tips to Make Oral Sex Safe

“Healthy, lusty sex is wonderful”- John Wayne
Many experts agree that oral sex without protection is not as dangerous as vaginal or anal intercourse without a condom. The risks are lower because the lining of the mouth is thicker and stronger than that of the vagina or anus. Also, it’s less likely to cause sores and lesions that facilitate the infiltration of infections in your blood and system. Another extra point on behalf of the greater safety of oral sex: it is believed that saliva contains a substance that weakens the viruses responsible for sexually transmitted diseases.
Despite all these good points, oral sex is still not risk free, and you shouldn’t perform it on someone whose medical record you don’t know, unless you’ve taken the necessary measures of protection.
Here’s a list of the most important ones. Don’t neglect any of them, no matter how unnecessary you might consider them at first glance, or else you’ll end up infected. Since they are easy to follow and don’t take the pleasure out of the act itself, there’s absolutely nothing to complain about.
1. Safe fingering. If you have small cuts, tiny lesions or sores on your fingers, even imperceptible or apparently innocent ones like paper cuts, use medical-grade gloves, to prevent any risk of infection. These gloves are easily found in most pharmacies or purchased online in a myriad of colors and textures. Some even come pre-lubricated or powdered for a more realistic feel.
2. The power of dental dams. Purchase a dental dam specifically made for oral sex; there are some that even come pre-flavored, lubed and/or with a stickable strip at the top of each use. If it’s not lubed, grab your choice of water-based lubricant and apply some to her side of the dental dam. Put it over her entire vulva, covering her Vaginal Opening and Front Commissure.
3. How to keep the dental dam in place. The most ingenious ways to keep the dental dam secure, when you don’t want to use you’re hands because they are busy stimulating other parts of her body:

a) Ask your girlfriend to wear panties with the crotch cut out over the top of the dental dam.

b) Use garters to attach from one side to another, and wrap them around your girlfriend’s leg.

c) Apply spirit gum to temporarily glue the dental dam in place.

4. Don’t mix things up. If you plan on some anal as well as vaginal play, make sure you use two separate dams that don’t come into contact with each other, because you’ll give her a nasty infection by moving fluids up and forth her vagina. I know it can be a bit of a mood killer to stop to take another dam but trust me, health-wise, you’re both winners.
5. Don’t hesitate to be more firm. She’ll need a tougher tongue when using a dental dam than without. She won’t be able to feel the friction of your tongue, just the vibrational aspect, which means you should put a bit more effort into licking and sucking, just to make sure she feels it as she would in the absence of the dental dam. You can also use your teeth, but lightly- you don’t want to rip it, but you do want to apply more pressure than you normally would. So, scraping and light biting isn’t taboo here. Other neat tricks:

a) Use the edge of the dental dam and rake it along her Clitoral Head; the feeling is so real-like she won’t even remember you’re not touching her directly on the skin.

b) Roll up the dental dam and use it as a makeshift finger, either to tease her vulva and Clitoral Head, or inside of her against her G spot. Because of the strong lubrication and the little folds in the dental dam, she’ll enjoy every bit of the action.

c) Wrap the dental dam around the top of the Clitoral Head and along the Front Commissure, then push and pull the edges to rub and “shine” it. This is a favorite trick of mine, I love the feeling it gives me and the fact that it covers a pretty large area and it stimulates me more than I would have imagined at first.

Have a safely sensual week,
Gabrielle Moore
P.S. If you’re not convinced by these methods, ask your girlfriend to go together for a whole medical check-up. Once you’re both sure that you’re infection free, you can do it however you like!

“The Female O.rgasm Revealed”

Let me ask you something: how many different positions
have you tried in bed? How many have you tried out of
bed? How many have you tried underwater?

The reason I am asking is because my great friend
Gabrielle, an expert on female intimacy, has recently
published her book “The Female Orgasm Revealed”.

It contains more than 197 hot secrets on how to please
your partner.

In her book, Gabrielle talks about 34 “uncommon”
positions that you MUST try if you want to satisfy your
lover.

To read more, go to:

http://www.gabriellemoore.com/

Now let me tell you why it is so important to try new
things in your intimate life; many opinion polls have
shown that the # 1 reason for infidelity is sexual
frustration.

Women get bored of “the same old stuff” or “the same
routine”, and they are often to ashamed to ask for a
change.

Therefore, they end up with somebody else instead of
trying something different…with YOU. 

Gabrielle’s site is wonderful. She provides a lot of
useful information on myths about the female orgasm.

Check it out at:

http://www.gabriellemoore.com/

Trust me…if you try something new tonight, she will
stay with you forever.

Talk to you later,

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Ps. Go ahead and visit Gabrielle’s site at:

http://www.gabriellemoore.com/

There is always something you don’t know, that might
literally save your relationship.